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  • Manifesting What You Want: A No Bullsh*t Guide

    Manifesting What You Want: A No Bullsh*t Guide

    You Don’t Need To Fit In To Win

    As Good Charlotte put it, “This song is dedicated to every kid who ever got picked last in gym class…To every kid who never had a date to no school dance…”

    or to put it quite frankly:

    This guide is for the outsiders, the intuitives, the ones who’ve been called “too much” or “not enough.” It’s time to stop shrinking and start claiming your power—no crystals required (unless you’re into that sh*t).

    What Manifesting Actually Is (Spoiler: It’s Not Just Instagram Affirmations)

    Manifestation isn’t just “law of attraction”/new-age fluff. It’s ancient magic wrapped in psychology. Rooted in the New Thought Movement of the 19th century (and older practices like Hermeticism), it’s the art of aligning your energy, focus, and action to create tangible results. But here’s the kicker:

    • Manifesting what you want = Your subconscious mind + deliberate action + spiritual alignment .
    • For misfits, it’s a rebellion. A way to say, “I refuse to accept the scraps of a system that never saw me.”

    Your Edge as a Misfit: Your “difference” isn’t a liability—it’s your superpower. You’re used to thinking outside boxes. Now use that skill to build a life that thrives outside them.

    Step 1: Get Uncomfortably Specific

    If a waiter approached you and asked you what you wanted to eat, would you reply “food?”

    I hope not. Here’s the thing: nobody likes vague requests. You want “freedom”? “Love”? “More money”? Okay. And what exactly does that look like for you?

    You need to be able to envision your goal. Get as specific as possible. What does it look like? Feel like? If it was a tree what kind of damn tree would it be? Know the ins and outs of your goal. Treat it as a character study if you have to.

    Example: Instead of “I want to feel seen,” try “I want to earn $50K/year doing art that resonates with outsiders like me.”

    Another thing worth mentioning here is the driving force behind your desire. If you’re asking for a raise, when really a completely new job is more in alignment with your ideals, then why are you manifesting a raise? Not only are you not actually manifesting what you want, you’re most likely not going to get it.

    • Misfit Hack: If you’re stuck or need guidance, use tarot as a tool for clarity. Pull a card and ask, “What do I truly want from life?” Even if you don’t get the answer you’re looking for, you’ll automatically find out what you don’t want which narrows down what you do want.

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    Your Mindset Is Sabotaging You (But You Can Fix It)

    Misfits often carry invisible weights: imposter syndrome, past failures, or the voice of someone who told you, “You’re not enough.” These are called limiting beliefs and they’re most likely the number one thing holding you back.

    Whenever you hear that slimy inner critic, listen to it. Don’t run from it. Implore why you’re hearing that voice. Where’d it come from? Is it programming from someone in your life who puts you in a box you either don’t belong it or have outgrown? Or is it just past trauma that you’re ready to break free from?

    Own it. Give it space to be heard- but not lived.

    • Rebel Exercise: Journal your limiting beliefs, then rewrite them. Example:
      • Old Script: “I’ll never succeed because I’m too weird.”
      • New Script: “My uniqueness is my leverage. I’m not here to blend in—I’m here to disrupt.”
    • Spiritual Nod: Burn sage, light a candle, or shuffle your tarot deck while you do this. Let ritual ground the process.

    Reality Check: Manifesting what you want isn’t about “thinking positive.” It’s about thinking strategically . You don’t have to fake confidence; you just have to act as if you have it until you do.

    Doubt Is Normal—But So Is Overcoming It

    Misfits are trained to expect the worst. Society told you, “You’ll never make it.” Your job is to prove them wrong without burning out.

    Anti-Toxic Positivity Strategy

    • Acknowledge doubt (“Yeah, I’m scared. So what?”).
    • Ask your tarot deck, “What’s the best step forward?” (Even skeptics admit it forces decisive action.)
    • Celebrate micro-wins (e.g., “I sent that email despite my anxiety. Take that, inner critic!”).

    Science Meets Spirit: Dopamine (the reward chemical) spikes when you complete tasks. Each tiny win trains your brain to crave progress.

    Step 2: Pick Your Poison Manifestation Methods (Or Choose Them All)

    Whether you use journaling, vision boards, or sigil work, these practices are about creating a container for your focus, energy, and intention. Here’s how to do it without losing your edge:

    1. Journaling: The Misfit’s Weapon for Clarity

    How to Do It:

    • Step 1: Grab a notebook and a pen. Burn sage, light a candle, or blast your “I’m dangerous when I’m focused” playlist.
    • Step 2: Ask yourself: “What do I want, and why do I deserve it?” Write the answer like you’re arguing with the universe—and winning.
    • Step 3: List every obstacle (e.g., “I’m scared to fail,” “I don’t know where to start”). Then reframe each as a step:
      • “I’m scared to fail” → “I’ll research my first actionable step today.”
      • “I don’t know where to start” → “I’ll schedule a tarot reading to cut through the noise.”
    • Step 4: Once you’ve accomplished that, write out your new manifestation proclamation. Just make sure it’s:
      • In present tense (acting as if): I will be eating Cinnabon every day. I eat Cinnabon every day.
      • Fairly short, nothing too extravagant: (I am eating Cinnabon every day and shopping at Macy’s while also flirting with cute boys. Oh, and I’m in the Maldives.”
    • Step 5: Repeat phrase daily.

    Why It Works: Writing forces you to confront your BS. It turns abstract fears into tangible problems you can solve.

    Misfit Hack: Use tarot to guide your journaling. Pull a card and ask, “What does this teach me about my goal?” The Hermit might say, “You need solitude to strategize,” while the Devil could scream, “Let go of perfectionism.”

    2. Vision Boards: For When You’re Tired of Playing Small

    How to Do It:

    • Step 1: Gather magazines, scissors, and a poster board—or use Canva if you’re digital.
    • Step 2: Cut out images/words that trigger emotion , not just aesthetics. If you’re manifesting creative freedom, include photos of messy studios, bold art, or a laptop on a beach (not a stock photo of a smiling corporate drone).
    • Step 3: Add one absurdly audacious goal. Example: “$100K/year doing witchy art for girls like me.” Tape it somewhere you’ll see daily (even the bathroom mirror).

    Why It Works: Vision boards aren’t magic—they’re visual reminders to stop settling. They rewire your brain to notice opportunities.

    Misfit Hack: Pair with a “shadow board.” Create a second board with everything you don’t want (e.g., burnout, conformity). Place it face-down under your bed. Symbolic? Yes. Therapeutic? Absolutely.

    3. Sigil Work: For the Witches Who Want Results

    How to Do It:

    • Step 1: Write your desire as a statement (e.g., “I am financially free”).
    • Step 2: Remove repeating letters: “I A M F N A C I A L Y F R E E.”
    • Step 3: Turn the letters into a symbol (or use a generator). This is your sigil.
    • Step 4: Charge it: Stare at the sigil, focus on your desire, then burn, bury it, or hide it. Let go of attachment.

    Why It Works: Sigils force you to distill your goal into pure intent. The act of destroying the sigil symbolizes releasing your desire into the universe—on your terms.

    Misfit Hack: Draw the sigil on your tarot deck’s box. Every time you pull a card, you’re reinforcing the energy.

    4. Affirmations That Don’t Suck

    How to Do It:

    • Step 1: Ditch generic mantras like “I am love.” Write affirmations that sound like you :
      • “I’m not here to blend in—I’m here to build empires.”
      • “My weirdness is my weapon.”
    • Step 2: Say them in the mirror while half-drunk on a Moscow Mule, or whisper them in the shower in the mornings. Make it feel alive, not performative.

    Why It Works: Affirmations reprogram your inner critic. Done right, they’re a middle finger to every voice that said you’re “too much.”

    Misfit Hack: Pair with tarot. Pull a card each morning and create an affirmation from it. Got the Tower? “I embrace chaos—it clears space for better things.”

    5. Rituals for the “Too Cynical for This Sh*t” Crowd

    How to Do It:

    • Step 1: Pick one actionable ritual per week. Example:
      • Monday: Tarot + journaling to set intentions.
      • Friday: Burn a list of self-doubt while drinking whiskey.
    • Step 2: Track progress in a “F*ck Yeah” log. Write down every tiny win, no matter how small.

    Why It Works: Rituals create momentum. Even skeptics can’t argue with data: “I did X, and Y happened.”

    Misfit Hack: Turn your workspace into a ritual zone. Keep your tarot deck, sigil sketchbook, and a list of goals on your desk. Make ambition visible .

    Also check out my Tarot For Manifestation Ultimate Guide

    Step 3: Action Proves That You’re Serious

    Want to monetize your passion? Manifestation isn’t chanting and waiting until something spooky happens. You have to pair it with action.

    You see, action isn’t just the science behind manifestation, it also shows the Universe that you’re serious about what you want. So instead of waiting for your dream clients to bust down your door, it’s about creating 10 pieces of content, pitching 20 clients, and using your intuition (via tarot or journaling) to decide which opportunities to chase.

     

    Tarot Tie-In: Use a three-card spread (Past, Present, Future) to map your next move. The cards won’t do the work for you—but they’ll cut through the noise.

    Step 4: Living with Intention

    You don’t become a CEO by thinking like an intern. You don’t manifest abundance by hoarding coupons like a scarcity hoarder. Start:

    • Thinking bigger: Upgrade your self-talk. Replace “I can’t” with “How can I?”
    • Acting bolder: Apply for the job you’re “underqualified” for. Pitch your rate, not a discount.
    • Investing in yourself: Buy the course. Hire the mentor. Spend on tools that amplify your power (not just survival).
    • Implement systems: To manifest change, you have to implement change. Do new things. Practice new beliefs.

    Tarot Tie-In: Pull a card daily and embody its energy. The Queen of Pentacles? Show up as the boss who values abundance. The Tower? Let go of a toxic crutch.

    Gratitude for Misfits: Not Just for Hippies

    You don’t have to pretend everything’s perfect to practice gratitude. Sometimes, true gratitude starts with:

    • Anger.
    • Grief.
    • The raw truth that life has sucked sometimes.

    Then, you build from there.

    But don’t operate from a place of lack. Gratitude and scarcity cannot exist at the same time. When you focus on what you’re lacking you’re not only negating the entire manifestation process, you’re choosing to focus on the negative.

    • Exercise: List 3 things you’re grateful for that align with your goal . Example: If you’re goal is creative freedom, write, “I’m grateful I carved out 30 minutes today to write/draw/create.”
    • Woo-Woo Twist: Pair this with a candle-dressing ritual (anoint a candle with oil while stating your intention) to anchor the energy.

    Burn These Manifesting Myths to the Ground

    Myth 1: “If you just believe hard enough, the universe will hand it to you.”
    Truth: The universe rewards alignment + action . Want proof? Try manifesting a $1500 dollars overnight while not properly doing the above steps (they worked for me!)

    Myth 2: “You have to be ‘spiritual’ to manifest.”
    Truth: Your trauma, cynicism, and messy emotions aren’t barriers—they’re fuel. Misfits thrive when they alchemize pain into purpose.

    Myth 3: “Manifesting is selfish.”
    Truth: Claiming your power is an act of defiance against systems that profit from your obedience.

    The Misfit’s Manifesting Checklist

    ✅ Defined your goal with ruthless specificity.
    ✅ Used tarot or intuition to clarify your path.
    ✅ Took at least one action step this week (no matter how small).
    ✅ Celebrated progress, not perfection.
    ✅ Burned at least one list of self-doubt (literally or metaphorically).

    Conclusion: You’re Not a Misfit—You’re the F*cking Chosen One

    Manifesting what you want isn’t about fitting in; it’s about standing out so fiercely that the world has no choice but to notice. You’ve spent years surviving. Now it’s time to thrive. So grab your tarot deck, your journal, and your unapologetic self—and start building the life that’s been waiting for you.

    Final Challenge: What’s one thing you’ve been too scared to manifest? Write it down. Burn the paper. Do one thing today to make it real.

    The Misfit Formula:

    • Get specific: (and just say no to your inner critic)
    • Pick your poison(s) (yes, even the holy-crap-is-this-possible terror).
    • Take one small, strategic action (email that client, sign up for the class, post your work online).
    • Repeat until momentum becomes magic.

    FAQs for Misfit Manifesters

    Q: Can I manifest even if I’m broke/depressed/unmotivated?
    A: Yes. Start smaller. Manifest the courage to Google “jobs near me” or the energy to text a friend. Progress compounds.

    Q: How do I know if my manifestation is “aligned”?
    A: If it feels expansive (not obsessive), it’s aligned. Misfits often conflate anxiety with intuition—use tarot to check.

    Q: Should I tell people my goals?
    A: Only if they’re fellow misfits who’ll without a doubt root for you. Otherwise, keep it sacred.

    Q: Can I manifest revenge?
    A: No. That’s not manifestation—it’s stagnation. Focus on building a life so good, you forget to hate them.

    You’re not broken. You’re not too much. You’re exactly what the world needs—raw, weird, and powerful. Ready to claim your magic? Share this post with your fellow misfits, and let’s build a rebellion. P.S. Need a personalized tarot reading to kickstart your plan? [Click here.]

     

  • Your Ultimate Guide to Tarot for Manifestation and Goal Setting

    Your Ultimate Guide to Tarot for Manifestation and Goal Setting

    Tarot and Manifestation

    Tarot isn’t just for the lightworkers, the spiritual gurus, and those who “talk to crystals (although if that’s you, then you and I are more alike than the common person).” It’s also for you- the dreamer, the rebel, the skeptic, the misfit- who’s ready to turn their desires, dreams, and goals, into reality.

    Manifestation is simple: it’s just aligning your walk with your talk. Even a recent post in Psychology Today highlights this. But in order to do so, you have to basically change the way you think. It’s aligning your energy with what you want, and the steps you take to make it happen. But trust me, I get it: life’s hard and it gets in the way. Recently, I broke two phones and accidentally stepped on my laptop causing a massive crack in the middle of the screen, so I understand what it’s like to think sometimes the universe is against you. But maybe you’re against you. And that’s where the tarot cards come into play, ready to help you dig through the noise and strike gold onto your unique path. Therefore, using tarot for manifestation, you practically get a personal guide for your manifestation ritual delivered right to you.

    Don’t get me wrong, tarot won’t do the work for you (harness that main character energy, misfit), but it is here to guide, inspire, and challenge you to own your magic. Whether its to manifest a killer career, a loving partner who brings you closer to you, a self love so deep you don’t need no man, or a plan to ditch the 9 to 5 and become a Dolly Parton drag queen, tarot can show you the steps while highlighting the blocks, and call you out when you’re best friend is 1,000 miles away (or just not answering her phone; Love you Amanda!)

    F*ck the Conventional

    When you’re blended from a different type of magic, the normal approach won’t suit you. So what do you do when the “one-size-fits-all” band-aid doesn’t actually fit you? Typical goal-setting workshops, worksheets, or even Tony Robbins might not be your approach (honestly, love Tony but when I imagine being in the same room as him, I get so exhausted). And that’s okay! We weren’t made for the typical life anyways. Not everyone is. So therefore, with tarot, we break those outdated rules, giving us the freedom – and permission – to manifest what we want on our terms. It’s not about playing nice, fixing your skirt, and kneeling to the expectations of what society expects; it’s about creating a life with purpose that feels unapologetically you.

    With Great Power…

    First things first. And here’s the tricky part that even I myself am guilty of skipping over. The secret to manifestation makes sense if you think about it: If we want to become the author, the pilot, or the captain, we have to become those roles. Therefore, when we give away our energy by blaming the world for our problems, we unintentionally put ourselves as anything but the author, the pilot, or the captain.

    Therefore, we must take ownership and accept the way our lives are at the current moment and own what got us there. Maybe it wasn’t fair circumstances or you felt forced to play a part as to not sacrifice what was most important to you. That’s okay. But we can’t place the blame on others or other things; we must take the ownership and responsibility ourselves. Even just taking out a journal and writing down everything you don’t like and then going back and accepting each individual item takes courage and vulnerability that will set you light years ahead.

    It’s not about settling, its about stepping up and being the leader because you need to. Its about saying, “okay, I’ll step in,” when the captain gets drunk and someone needs to fill in. It’s automatically rewiring your brain to put you in an authoritative position, whereas before you were a bystander.

    Use your deck to explore self-acceptance with questions such as:

    • What’s one part of myself I need to embrace more?
    • How can I fully step into my power?
    • What’s one thing I need to get over?

    The cards will guide you and the truth will scream at you.

    So listen. Embrace it. The magic is coming soon, so just watch the universe and fall in line.

     

    Limiting to Limitless

    If you ever see a celebrity out in “real life,” it’s similar to going scuba diving and noticing there’s a shark nearby before you even see it: you can feel the energy shift. The shadows get darker and the seconds longer. And why? Because of the way they carry themselves.

    The quickest way to make sure we get what we don’t want is to believe those lies that voice tells you. That voice of your inner saboteur, that inner critic, that f*cking Roger Ebert constantly giving you 3 stars of everything you do from start to end? That voice is the number one root cause of failed goals and manifestations. Tarot shines a light on energy, more often than not the energy that you’re avoiding is exactly what’s going to come up. So we don’t shy away from this inner critic, but invite him in occasionally, giving him the space to be seen and heard.

    So don’t shy away from this inner critic, but invite him in

    Pull a few cards with the intention of uncovering what’s holding you back. Maybe it’s The Devil, representing unhealthy attachments and addictions, or maybe the Eight of Swords, meaning self-imposed restrictions. Whatever it may be, hold space to listen and meditate on the answer and what it could mean for you. This is your chance to stare at it straight on and say, “I hear you and acknowledge you. However, you’re wrong.”

    Possible questions could be:

    • What is my number one belief holding me back?
    • What subconscious programming am I guilty of? Where did it come from?
    • How can I break free from all my limiting beliefs?

    Choosing the Right Deck For Manifestation

    Now that you’ve accepted who you are and where you are, and have also listened to your shadow, your ready to pull 3 cards, do 2 spins, 1 jumping jack, and open your door to a fresh start.

     

    Just kidding. It’s never that simple is it. And that’s a good thing.

    If it were that simple, then it wouldn’t be worth it. And besides, the doldrums have passed, and the adventure starts now, with your deck of tarot cards. If you have your own deck, you can skip this part, or maybe read further if you’re looking for some unique suggestions.

    Every deck is different. Each deck comes with individual style, a special and unique voice, and some slide out of your hands and get dirtier way easier than others (I also recommend a special tarot cloth specifically for only reading tarot on).

    Choosing the right deck for you is like choosing the right Dolly Parton wig for quitting your 9 to 5: it needs to fit, support your walk, and look good while doing it. Your deck is more than a stack of cards, it’s an extension of who you are, the words you use, and the artistic aesthetic you and your misfit bring to the table.

    Some readers opt solely for aesthetic, leaning on the memorized meanings and definitions of each card, which often lead to the 2 of cups just being two cups. Very minimal. Nothing special for the minor arcana. Just there.

    But if you’re new to tarot or want to re connect to tarot, I suggest picking out a deck that has an individual personalized work of art for every card, could potentially be brought to an art show and withstand the interpretation of many art critics (or really, just have some sort of interpretation), or even fan-made tarot decks (if you’re a fan of, let’s say Nightmare Before Christmas, or Twin Peaks). These types of decks are loaded with imagery and will make reading the cards much more interpretative and talk to you more than memorizing the boring ole book of meanings. Also, with fan decks, each card represents a different character. It’s almost like a Myers-Briggs or Astrology lineup. If you understand the show, you can potentially pull a lot of meaning from the card itself.

    Here’s 7 of my personal favorite decks for Misfit Manifesting.

     

    Tarot Cards That Represent Manifestation Energy

    Some cards have undeniable energy regardless of the deck. Some are infused with personalities, like the court cards. Others could be an authoritative energy, such as The Emperor or The Hierophant. Some, and maybe the majority, are infused with a Manifestation Energy, such as:

    • The Magician: He’s number 1. Literally. It says on the card, “1.” So that should tell you how powerful he is. If he were on a sitcom, his phrase would be, “you got it dude,” as he always has the 4 tools representing the 4 elements at his disposal. He’s competent, quick, and intelligent in his unique way. He knows his shit. He’s here to shine a light on your skills and the focus needed to create the world you want.
    • The Empress: Creation at its finest. Often very regal in her pose, depending on the interpretation. She’s the good version of Poison Ivy. She’s about abundance, fertility, and nurturing energy. She reminds one to plant the seeds of your intentions and trust the process of growth.
    • The Sun: Ask anyone in The Jersey Shore and they’ll tell you that getting out into the sun to tan is important. Or at least important to them. The Sun radiates positivity and success. She beckons you to step into your power and manifest joy, clarity, and confidence.
    • Ace of Wands: Aces are all about new beginnings, fresh ideas, and embodies a seed. Paired with the suit of Wands, or fire energy, it talks about a literal spark of inspiration. An Eureka! moment if we’ve ever known one to exist. It urges us to take that first step towards your dreams.
    • Three of Pentacles: Manifestation isn’t solely about dreaming, it’s about taking tangible and actionable steps toward the goal you’re working on. But you can’t do it alone. The three of pentacles not only stands for birth and starting to see results from your hard work and actions, but also that you can’t do it alone. Maybe reach out for help, or incorporate someone close to you for help.
    • The Star: Your guiding light. She brings with her hope, divine timing, and renewal. If you want to rise like a phoenix, The Star is here to tell you the Universe/God/Source has got your back.

    While there are many other cards that might represent manifestation energy, these are some of the strongest or my personal favorites. If these guys and girls show up in a reading, pay attention- they’re part of your Misfit Spirit Squad, urging you to show up and create.

     

    Tarot Spread for Goal Setting

    Traditional goal-setting can feel stiff and soulless, but tarot flips the script. These spreads are designed to dig deep, uncover your true desires, and create an actionable roadmap that feels personal and aligned.

    Here’s a simple but powerful spread for goal-setting:

    1. The Dream (What do I truly want?)
    2. The Why (What’s driving this desire?)
    3. The Block (What’s holding me back?)
    4. The First Step (What action can I take right now?)
    5. The Long Game (How can I stay consistent and committed?)
    6. The Support (Who or what can help me along the way?)
    7. The Outcome (What’s waiting for me if I follow through?)

    This spread doesn’t just clarify your goals- it empowers you to chase them down. And if you want to mix it up, tweak the prompts to fit your unique vibe. Remember: the best spreads are the one that feel right to you. So if a portion of this spread doesn’t feel right- change it, edit it, and send feedback to me. I’d love to hear it!

    Working with Tarot Card Meanings for Manifestation

    Here’s the thing about tarot: it’s not carved in stone. The meanings of the cards are flexible, especially when you’re working with manifestation energy. Reinterpreting them to suit your goals can unlock whole new layers of insight. To quote my brother (lightly): “I’ve had cards just show up like the ace of cups just to tell this lady she needs to drink more water.” So don’t feel like nothing is too taboo for a card.

    For example:

    • The Tower: Instead of doom and destruction, see this card as a necessary breakdown to rebuild something better. It’s the ultimate “leveling up” card.
    • The Five of Pentacles: Sure, it’s a tough card, but it can also highlight where scarcity mindsets are holding you back. Shift your perspective to see it as an opportunity to find hidden support.
    • The Seven of Swords: Traditionally about deception, but for manifestation? It’s your reminder to move strategically and keep your plans close until they’re ready to bloom.
    • The Moon: Instead of confusion, view it as an invitation to trust your intuition and explore what lies beneath the surface.

    Reinterpreting cards isn’t about ignoring the traditional meanings—it’s about adapting them to your personal journey. Every card has something to teach you; it’s up to you to find the lesson that fits.

    My Personal Practice

    Let me pull back the wizard’s magic curtain on how tarot fuels my manifestation journey personally. It’s a mix of intuition, ritual, and a whole lot of self-trust.

    I know this manifestation spread created by my brother that’s a bit in-depth and hard to explain. It basically highlights that which you’re receiving (i.e. the energy coming in), what you’re doing with the energy, and what you’re putting out (i.e. the energy out). We call it the Manifestation Spread. When I’m in a rut or in need of just a general check-in, it’s perfect.

    When it comes to actually setting goals and manifesting, I’ve tried many techniques. I’ve manifested 1700 dollars over a course of two nights before, and all I had my sights on was 1500. As I’ve mentioned earlier, manifesting is hard and even though I’ve done that once, I’ve found that my mindset and low vibrational energy keeps me from doing it time and time again.

    So I get it.

    But implementing these steps and rewriting my brain to think only of success in a romanticized way, or taking the negative and know it’s only feedback to change? That’s what leads to success.

    I also journal a bit and try to meditate once daily. Anything you can do to better yourself is only going to help you with goal setting, tarot, and manifesting from here on out. I try not to do tarot card pulls at the beginning of my day, lest I accidentally manifest some energy from a card I didn’t want that day, but instead try to pull in the middle or end of my day, with differing insightful questions.

    Also, grounding is your best friend.

    As much as I love tarot, I try not to use it as a crutch. That will only lead me further away from where I want. Plus, anytime I do a second reading for someone, I end up shuffling and pulling out the same fucking cards. So it’s irrelevant to try anyways.

    For me, all of these tools and practices are a way of life. They’ve been my strength and solitude and the same for many others around me and on the internet. It keeps me embracing my intuition, my dreams, and my inner misfit magic.

     

    Tarot Cards for Manifesting Abundance

    Abundance isn’t just about money; it’s about all forms of wealth: love, health, creativity, joy, and opportunities. Some tarot cards are the ultimate symbols of abundance and can help you manifest your desires in every area of life.

    • The Ten of Pentacles: This card represents long-term success and stability. It’s about legacy, family wealth, and creating a foundation that lasts. If you’re trying to manifest material abundance or career success, this is your card.
    • The Ace of Pentacles: Fresh, new opportunities are knocking. Whether it’s a new job, an investment, or a financial windfall, the Ace is the universe handing you a golden opportunity.
    • The Queen of Pentacles: She’s nurturing, grounded, and abundant. The Queen of Pentacles teaches you how to manifest abundance through hard work, patience, and care for both yourself and others.
    • The Nine of Cups: The “wish fulfillment” card. Manifestation at its finest, showing you that everything you’ve been desiring can come to fruition when you align your energy with your desires.
    • The Empress: She embodies abundance, fertility, and creativity. Whether you’re creating art or growing your business, she’s the cosmic support you need to bring your manifestations into the world.

    These cards show that abundance isn’t a one-time event—it’s an ongoing flow, a vibration you can tune into. Manifesting abundance isn’t just about asking for what you want; it’s about aligning with the energy that attracts it, being open, and trusting that it’s already on its way.

    Goal Setting Spreads for Creative Misfits

    Creativity is the heart of manifestation for the misfit. When you’re a creative soul, goal setting isn’t just about ticking off boxes; it’s about bringing something to life, something uniquely yours. Here’s a spread designed for creative misfits who want to channel their inner artist while setting clear goals:

    1. What’s the big idea? (What is the creative project I’m manifesting?)
    2. The spark of inspiration (What’s motivating this creative endeavor?)
    3. The challenge (What’s the main obstacle I’ll face while working toward this goal?)
    4. The resources (What do I already have that will help me bring this idea to life?)
    5. The next step (What’s the first action I need to take to get this creative project going?)
    6. The outcome (Where will this creative journey lead if I follow through?)
    7. The message for the misfit artist (What does my rebellious, authentic energy bring to the table?)

    This spread is all about giving voice to your creative self while remaining grounded and focused. It helps you stay aligned with your vision, even as you disrupt the conventional paths that others may take. Your uniqueness is your power.

    Manifesting Love

    Love, in all its forms, is a powerful thing to manifest, and tarot can help guide you toward the kind of love that aligns with your soul. Whether you’re manifesting romantic love or deepening self-love, these cards are the cosmic affirmations you need:

    • The Two of Cups: This is typically referred to as the soulmate card, representing harmony and partnership. It shows the universe bringing two souls together who are meant to create something beautiful. It at one time haunted me and showed up in every single reading I would get form different readers for months on end. I thought it was about a boy, but ended up signifying deeper self love (which I learned due breaking up with the boy).
    • The Empress: When manifesting love, she’s all about self-love and attracting the right energy. Her abundance of love and nurturing spirit creates space for deep connections to bloom.
    • The Ace of Cups: New emotional beginnings, new love, and opportunities to deepen the love within yourself. This card is your signal that love is on its way, and it’s exactly the kind you deserve.
    • The Star: A card of healing, hope, and divine timing. It reassures you that love will manifest when you stay true to yourself and trust the universe’s timing.

    **Why I didn’t include the Lovers: As many people see the lovers as a card about amour itself, I see it more so as harmony and choices, sometimes even temptation. A longer topic to get into but wanted to point that out here.**

    Manifesting love starts with being open to receive. If you’re manifesting love, don’t be surprised if the Universe throws you a curve ball and you end up loving yourself and not caring about a partner. Which , ironically, could lead you to finding a partner. But in order to manifest a partner one must love themselves first. This is a tricky topic to dive into and deserves a post of its own, but one worth talking about briefly here nonetheless.

    Rituals For Manifestation

    Beyond tarot, there are plenty of other tools and rituals that can support your manifestation journey:

    • Candle Magic: Light a candle with intention while focusing on your manifestation. You can even carve symbols or words into the candle that represent your desires.
    • Crystal Magic: Crystals like citrine (abundance), rose quartz (love), and amethyst (spiritual alignment) can amplify your intentions. Meditate with them or keep them close as reminders of what you’re manifesting.
    • Affirmations: Write down a few affirmations that align with your goals and say them out loud every morning. “I am worthy of my dreams,” or “Abundance flows effortlessly into my life.”
    • Vision Boards: Visualizing your goals is powerful, and creating a vision board is a tangible way to keep your intentions in focus. Cut out images, words, or symbols that represent your manifestations, and place them somewhere you’ll see them daily.
    • Full Moon Rituals: Use the energy of the full moon to release what’s no longer serving you, and set powerful intentions for the next lunar cycle. Secret sauce for this ritual: moon water!

    Manifestation isn’t just a one-time event—it’s a lifestyle. Using these tools alongside tarot deepens your connection to the universe and enhances your ability to bring your dreams into reality.

    Using Your ‘Misfit’ Advantage

    As a misfit, you already have an edge in the manifestation game. Your uniqueness is your power. While others are stuck following conventional paths, you’re the one rewriting the rules. Embrace it.

    The other unique thing about Misfits is that others may not know what they want. But this Misfit? They often know, or are incredibly close to finding out. If this is you, start out with what you don’t want, and go from there.

    When using tarot for manifestation, your cards will show you opportunities that others might overlook. The rebellious energy you bring to the table allows you to challenge the status quo, break down walls, and create the life that feels most authentic to you. Remember: while others are seeking permission, you’re often times the one giving permission. Don’t be afraid to be the first; you’ll inspire someone else to be the second.

    You don’t need to fit in with everyone else. Your journey is meant to be uniquely yours. Tarot will help you align with that, showing you the best way to break free, take risks, and manifest on your terms.

    Fin

    Manifestation isn’t only following a formula. Don’t forget to tap into the wild, rebellious, and authentic energy within you. Tarot is a tool to help you navigate this journey, but honestly, it ‘s your vision, your desires, and your power that drive the magic.

    As a Misfit, you’re already one step ahead. You’ve got what it takes to tackle the courage and rebel against a society that preaches ego, commercialism, and everything you’re against. Trust your intuition, trust your deck, and trust that the universe is conspiring to bring your wildest dreams together.

    Intention.

    So go ahead and be your baddest Misfit self. Manifest what you deserve. And if you have any feedback, I’d love to hear it! Either what you’ve manifested, or what helps/hinders you in manifesting with tarot.

    Go wild, child. Be free.

     

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    Guided Meditation for Acceptance: Embrace and Reclaim Your Inner Power

    Taking Back Control: A Manifestation Meditation for Misfits

    Let’s get real, misfits. We live in a world that often tries to tell us who to be, what to want, and how to live. It’s messy, chaotic, and more importantly inauthentic. But if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: the moment you decide to step into your own power, you stop playing by their rules and start writing your own.

     

    That’s where this manifestation-meditation exercise comes in. It’s not about perfection or pretending the world hasn’t been unfair to you. It’s about saying, “This is where I’m at. I accept it and I am taking back control.”

     

    So grab your favorite deck, light some palo santo, and let’s get out dream life going.

     

    Why Control Matters

     

    Control doesn’t mean micromanaging every little thing. It’s about becoming the captain of your own ship—weathered sails and all. It’s about embracing the parts of yourself you’ve avoided, owning the narrative you’ve been running from, and taking a hard look at what’s holding you back.

    Here’s the truth: No one else is coming to save you. That sounds harsh, I know. But when you realize you’re the one holding the wheel, the world starts to look a little different.

     

     

     

    The Taking Back Control Meditation

     

     

    Find a quiet space. Sit down, stand up, lie in bed—whatever works. This is your journey, after all.

     

    Step 1: Ground Yourself

    Close your eyes. Take a deep breath in through your nose while counting to four. Hold it for a count of four. Exhale through your mouth on another count of four. Hold that again for the 4th count of four. Repeat until your shoulders feel a little lighter and your mind a little quieter. This is called box breathing.

     

    Step 2: Visualize the Chaos

    Imagine yourself on a ship in the middle of a storm.

    You can barely see ahead of the ship as the rain blinds you. Water from every direction is seeping through your outer layer of clothes, splashing onto you and dripping down your neck and back. Socks are soaking wet.

    Waves crash, the wind howls, and everything feels out of control. You’re scared as you feel completely helpless against the current of the storm. Yet, you’re the only one on the boat. You can’t run to anybody for help.

    It’s just you and the storm.

    Let yourself feel the fear, the anger, the helplessness.

     

    Step 3: Find the Captain’s Wheel

    Now imagine walking up to the wheel. It’s abandoned, spinning wildly. Wrap your hands around it. It feels steady, solid, warm. Breathe. Say out loud (or in your mind):

    “I am the captain of my ship, Master of my fate”

     

    Step 4: Set a New Direction

    As you begin to steer the ship, you muster up every inch of determination and faith you can. You can start seeing the ocean ahead more and more. Suddenly, you notice the storm beginning to calm. The waves smooth out, the wind softens. The sky clears, revealing a horizon filled with light. In your mind, decide what direction you want to go.

     

    Journal Prompts for Reflection

    Once the meditation is complete, grab your journal and explore these questions:

        1. What’s one part of my life I need to take ownership of?

        1. What’s one area where I’ve been giving my power away?

        1. How can I rewrite the narrative I’ve been living by?

       

      Using Tarot to Dig Deeper

      Pull three cards to guide you further:

          • Card 1: What am I resisting?

          • Card 2: Where can I reclaim control?

          • Card 3: What energy will help me lead my life?

        Trust me, the cards won’t hold back. They’ll tell you exactly what you need to hear—no sugarcoating.

         

        Own It, Misfit

        Taking back control isn’t about becoming someone you’re not. It’s about embracing every messy, brilliant part of who you already are. It’s about stepping up, even when it’s hard, and saying, “I’ve got this.”

        The universe loves a rebel who knows their worth. So take the wheel, steer your ship, and watch as the magic starts to unfold.

        The stars are cheering you on. Let’s get to it.

         

         

        Feel free to share how this manifestation meditation works for you or tag me in your journey. Together, we’re rewriting the rules—one misfit at a time.